Date of Award
Spring 5-16-2025
Document Type
Dissertation
Degree Name
Doctor of Philosophy
Major
Educational Studies
First Advisor
Patricia Crain de Galarce
Second Advisor
Salvatore Terrassi
Third Advisor
Jessica Bramham
Abstract
Historically, Attention Deficit/Hyperactivity Disorder (ADHD) research and public perception have centered on hyperactive young boys, overlooking how the condition manifests in women, particularly mothers. As diagnostic understanding improves, increasing numbers of women are receiving ADHD diagnoses in adulthood, shedding light on the intersection of ADHD symptoms and gendered social expectations, including the ideals of motherhood. This hermeneutic phenomenological study explores how ADHD affects the lived experience of motherhood through in-depth interviews with five mothers across North America. Findings reveal significant challenges in executive functioning, emotional regulation, time management, and self-perception, exacerbated by societal expectations of maternal competence. Participants describe the intention-behavior gap, persistent guilt, and the pressure to conform to neurotypical parenting standards. Despite these struggles, narratives also highlight the transformative value of diagnosis, the role of self-compassion, and the importance of community with other neurodivergent mothers. Grounded in Critical Disability Theory, Feminist Standpoint Theory, and Gender Schema Theory, this study conceptualizes the Access-Affirmation Matrix, illustrating how access to resources influences self-perception and empowerment. The study provides critical insights for mental health professionals, policymakers, and support networks, advocating for more inclusive and affirming support systems for neurodivergent mothers.
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Recommended Citation
Murray, Ashley Marie, "Queens of Chaos: How ADHD Affects the Experience of Motherhood" (2025). Educational Studies Dissertations. 1.
https://digitalcommons.lesley.edu/educational_studies_dissertations/1
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